New Year, New Job, New Home, New Car!

The delay in writing this post is entirely indicative of how frantically busy our life has been over the last 4 months. I can hardly believe I have let so much time pass without a full story of how many changes have happened in a short period of time! This will be a post devoid of photos, however, as the resident photographer has broken his camera. I have a post pending that he has taken photos for already, but not loaded them for me. You know how it is.... the cobbler's wife goes shoeless, the photographer's wife never has any pictures to post!

As most of you know, Jay and I were very ready to see the end of 2011. In many ways it has been one of the most trying times we've ever experienced. I lost my Aunt Faye, a huge support in my life in so many ways, and in September we lost Jay's mom. By October, though, I thought that things had calmed down. We could grieve and begin to figure out what life was going to be like without those two women.

In November, I got an email. It was a friend asking if I would be interested in applying for a job at Amgen. For a while now I have been thinking about what to do next in my career. I was not interested in continuing in the post-doctoral track, something that would be unavoidable if I stayed in academia. I had been considering making a move to industry, but what that move would look like and when it would come I wasn't sure. The specifics of this job were very appealing to me, and I decided to apply. I interviewed right after Thanksgiving, and I was offered the position the next day. To start in two weeks.

For those who live outside the hallowed halls of academia, most job changes and moves are planned out months in advance. To give two weeks notice is unheard of. But I did it. Poor Patricia! It was hard on her. But I committed to helping wrap up the project on weekends and to write the manuscript. It's in my best interest as well, and I hated leaving a lab on those terms. It felt like a betrayal; but I also knew I needed this change.

This also meant that we had to move. Our apartment was through UCLA housing - since I would no longer be a post-doctoral researcher, we had to leave. Besides, Amgen is in Thousand Oaks, much closer to Jay's offices in Agoura Hills and Woodland Hills. The move made sense. So we completed a whirlwind house hunting, and found a two-bedroom, two-bathroom townhouse in Thousand Oaks. It's less than 3 miles from Amgen, and less than a mile from the 101 Fwy. It has a washer & dryer, tons of space, a fireplace, 2-car garage, and a private garden courtyard that Meow can enjoy (and she does). Once I get Jay to take some pictures, I promise to post them.

So, here we are. Beginning of December. Wrapping up at the lab. Shopping and shipping Christmas gifts. Writing Christmas cards and getting them mailed. Packing up our apartment. Starting at my new job! Headed to visit Jay's brother for the holiday weekend.... and then it hit. I began work at Amgen as a Scientist II on December 19th. Amgen's winter shutdown was scheduled for the following week. We were flying to San Antonio, TX on December 24th, returning on December 26th. Movers arriving on December 28th. I got the flu on December 23rd. Jay came down with it on December 27th. When we came back to LA, we discovered that I had left the interior light on in the Subaru. That car was stone-cold dead, and nothing we did was getting it to start.

Moving day was chaos, pure and simple. We were both sick, and we had no car. Our movers loaded everything, and we drove together with Meow in the U-Haul to Thousand Oaks. We rented a car, and returned to LA where Jay managed to get the Subaru running. We spent the 29th and 30th in bed, trying to recover from the holidays, moving, and the flu. New Year's Eve I dragged Jay out of bed. No matter how high our fevers, by heavens I was showing 2011 the door. That year could get gone and good riddance! We finally began unpacking on New Year's Day. And we've been adjusting and settling ever since!

Oh, and the new car? That just happened this weekend. Jay decided that he wanted a 2010 Ford Fusion Hybrid, and he got one. Lucky boy! This is the first time in almost 6 years that we have been a 2 car family.

So, on the whole? I love my new job. We love the new house. Jay just got the new car, but so far it's been nice. 2012 is looking much brighter than last year for us both.

25 Questions about the Holidays

There are a lot of things happening around Casa de Hall right now... stay tuned for some big announcements soon. Things are so busy, in fact, that I am worried we won't be posting much. I thought I'd do this quick meme about the holidays to share a little about how Jay and I celebrate.

25 Questions: Holiday Style

• Eggnog or hot chocolate?

Eggnog! Especially now that Jay has a great recipe of his own. And you haven’t lived till you’ve lived through Duk-Nog.

• Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree?

When Santa dropped off his gifts, he left them under the tree unwrapped. Gifts to/from family are always wrapped.

• Colored lights on tree/house or white?

We use colored lights – some people think they are tacky, but we love them.

• Do you hang mistletoe?

Nope, plenty of kissing at our house without it!

• When do you hang your decorations up?

Typically within a week after Thanksgiving.

• What is your favorite holiday dish (excluding dessert)?

Jay makes a wonderful roasted duck with apricot glaze, and I love the fresh baked rolls.

• Favorite holiday memory as a child?

Christmases with my grandparents – that was the best. My grandma had an ornament that sang like a bird, I was obsessed with it.

• What is on your Christmas wish list?

Sanity, and some peace and quiet in our lives.

• Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve?

No, we never do, unless we go see family on Christmas Eve that we won’t see on Christmas Day.

• How do you decorate your Christmas tree?

With eggnog in hand, listening to Christmas music, wearing a Santa hat. We have a tradition wherein we get an ornament from a place when we travel there, as a souvenir. Then when we decorate the tree we can reminisce about our memories of that trip.

• Snow? Love it or dread it?

To be fair, since I’m from Georgia, I’m not a snowy day kind of girl. I detest driving in the stuff. But I don’t mind it otherwise.

• Real tree or fake tree?

I have always liked the ease and convenience of a fake tree, but Jay loves real ones so our last tree was a real tree. No tree this time around. Maybe next year…

• Do you remember your favorite gift?

My doll Dorrie. She was as tall as me then, and I thought she was beautiful. My mom kept her put away since she wasn’t really for playing with, and I still have her now. As far as playing-with toys, probably my microscope or my robot-controlled cat. Both have clearly played a role in shaping who I am now… a scientist with a beloved pet cat…

• What’s the most important thing about Christmas for you?

Time to relax and enjoy Jay.

• What is your favorite holiday dessert?

That’s a hard one! Every year I usually make a dessert called Chocolate nemesis, but to be honest I love the Christmas cookies we bake even more.

• What is your favorite tradition?

Watching Christmas Vacation with Jay and decorating the tree, and receiving Christmas cards. I love to hear from far-flung family and friends.

• What tops your tree?

Jay insists on an Angel, but I’ve always liked stars.

• Do you prefer giving or receiving?

Both! I love to select and give gifts, it’s especially wonderful when the person really enjoys their gift. I’m really big on giving “useful” gifts – things that I know someone will use. But when I receive a gift, it makes me feel very loved to know that someone thought of me and took the time to select something that they thought I would enjoy (that includes gift cards – that means you took the time to think about what places I enjoy shopping, and also gave me the gift of spending a lovely afternoon shopping for myself).

• What is your favorite Christmas song?

Baby, It’s Cold Outside.

• Candy canes, yuck or yum?

Yum!

• Favorite Christmas movie?

National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation – Jay and I watch this together every year, and every year we laugh just as hard.

• What do you leave for Santa?

Homemade chocolate chip cookies and bourbon.

• Do you have a Christmas morning tradition?

Just opening gifts!

• Do you prefer to shop on-line or at the mall?

This year I did a little bit of both.

• Christmas letter or Christmas card?

Christmas card – I try to send them out every year with a picture. This will be the first year I don’t have a picture. We just had too much going on at once.

Halloween in West Hollywood

This year I finally talked Jay into accompanying me to the Halloween Carneval in West Hollywood. It is one of the largest Halloween celebrations in the world - several hundred thousand people attend each year. Technically the Carneval lasts until 11 pm, but when we finally got tired and left at midnight, there were still thousands of people there. The main reason I love it is that watching Hollywood have an excuse to dress outrageously is amazing - the costumes are all carefully planned and executed for the most part. The entire night was punctuated by "Hey, check that one out, it's _____ from ______!" or, "Wow, that costume is AMAZING!" So this post will be mostly pictures of a few of our favorites from this year.

First, Rock, Paper, Scissors:


A little known fact- in the 16 years Jay and I have been together, I have only beaten him once at Trivial Pursuit and once at Rock, Paper, Scissors. In Trivial Pursuit he has an amazing amount of sports trivia and useless bits of information. In the case of Rock, Paper, Scissors he claims he can read my mind.

Then we saw Jessica and Roger Rabbit... such a lovely couple!



Beaker was inspirational to me. One of the reasons I became a scientist. Who says the Muppets aren't educational?


It's also fun when people get a group of friends together for a theme. This group dressed as the officers from Reno 911. Jason yelled out, "Hey Officer Dangle!" and they all immediately posed for him.


Remember watching Inspector Gadget? We sang the theme song for 10 minutes after we saw this guy.


Then another incredible cartoon memory, I got my picture made with He-Man and She-Ra! I loved watching those two cartoons after school.


Perhaps my most swoon-worthy moment was when I spotted Westley from the Princess Bride. Jay told me to go ask him for a picture, but I just blushed and stammered. So Jay shoved me onto him. I ask him if he would mind getting a picture with me, and he replied "As you wish." Damn, I almost fainted. He even had the voice.


A really neat costume we saw was Russ from Up.


I'd like to end with one of the funniest costumes we saw that night. I wonder if she ever found her dog?

Magic Mountain Man 5K Race

One of the goals Jay and I have every year is to run at least 3 races. Usually these are just 5K, but I'm hoping than one day we will participate in either a 10K or even a half-marathon. I may even harbor a very quiet dream of completing a triathlon one day (a very small one, mind you). With the events of this year, we have missed most of our usual races. But things have thankfully become more quiet in our lives, and I decided to try to cram all our races into the last 3 months of the year.

This weekend we headed to Castaic, CA to run in the 5K portion of the Sport Chalet Magic Mountain Man race. We woke up bright and early Saturday morning and drove to Lake Castaic. The race benefited the Challenged Athletes Foundation, a cause that Jay and I were happy to support. We arrived just in time to get our bibs, our goody bag, shoe timers, and get warmed up.

Neither of us has trained in the last month. Normally we try to set a training schedule, and we had been running a 5K a couple times a week working on our time and endurance. In the last month, we haven't run at all. So this course ended up being more challenging than I at least was prepared for. Jay is a natural athlete; he kindly stayed with me during the race. He was actually running circles around me at one point, supposedly to encourage me. We finished the race in 37 minutes - I'll take a 12 minute mile considering I hadn't even laced up my running shoes in 4 weeks!

The photo below we took immediately after we finished. Yes, I'm aware of how handsome my husband is, even after running 3.2 miles! The beautiful scenery really helped me get through it - I was so happy to be in such a beautiful setting, with the strength and health to get through a 5K race with little to no preparation. It made me feel very grateful.

Happy 9th Anniversary!

Happy anniversary sweetheart! This has been a tough year for us, but we are getting through it together; just as we always have, and just as we always will. I love you!

What it really means to be Southern in SoCal

This is probably the first time in years that we have updated the blog more than once in a 2-day period. Don't get spoiled.

As many of you know, I love to cook, and having lived and eaten in many parts of the U.S., my cooking has many influences. I have a fair amount of family from Mississippi and Louisiana, and have always enjoyed Cajun and Creole food, especially the gumbos and stews that are so prevalent along the Gulf and bayou country.

When you combine that with being Southern in SoCal, some pretty cool things happen...

(click on photo to embiggen. I can say embiggen if I want to, dammit!)

It's amazing what you can make with some red wine, a few tomatoes, okra, catfish, oysters, and mussels. And a bay leaf, salt, and creole seasoning. That's one hell of a stew!

Who's comin' for dinner? There's plenty more red wine!

An Unwelcome Awakening

Wow! Has it been a long time.... we've had an extremely busy Summer 2011. So busy in fact that I am months behind in posts. I will try to remedy that soon. Here are some of the high (and low) moments from May through July:

May: The McArthur-Wilson clan comes for a visit! We had so much fun with our favorite Canadian family. I wish they were back already- Galen and Raynham at Disneyland is my favorite amusement park visit EVER. The very next week we headed to Georgia to visit our family there. Jay's cousin Robert was married, and it was a fun wedding. The rest of the visit was not so fun - my Aunt Faye and Jay's mom have both been very ill. Jay's mom has gotten much worse rapidly, and my aunt had been told her cancer was terminal. We found both of them to be declining much more quickly than we had anticipated.

June: Our friend Helen received her PhD, and she and her husband Alias, along with their lovely sons, came into town for her hooding ceremony. It was a lot of fun to get to see them, though Jay was in Chicago for business. I visited the Tim Burton exhibit at LACMA with my friend Gil, and then was called back to Alabama. My Aunt Faye passed away 6 hours after I reached her.

July: Sid and Joyce came out for a visit! They drove cross-country, and we spent the weekend touring the central coast. We visited Hearst Castle, saw elephant seals, and spent an entire day at Solvang. Jay spent the next weekend in TyTy with his brother, visiting his mom. She is decidedly worse, which has been a hard thing for all of us to accept. The next weekend we headed to Great Falls, MT for our niece Ashly's wedding. Jay was the official photographer, and we so enjoyed visiting our family there.

So you can see our lives have been a bit of a roller coaster these past few months. Up then down, back up again. Just maintaining our work schedules and keeping the household in some sort of order has been about all we can handle lately. It's been a busy and difficult season, but visits from our friends and family has really helped us keep our spirits up. Thank you to all who have made the trip out and shared time with us - it means so much, and has been so needed. I'll try to get some pictures up soon!

But onto the title of this post. Early this morning (sometime around 5 am) the fire alarm in our apartment building went off. These fire alarms are LOUD, obviously for a reason. Jay and I practically catapulted out of bed, and began scrambling madly for shoes, and of course Meow. She was panicked, and that panic increased when I pulled out her hated carrier. That carrier means vet visits and kennel stays, and she associates it with trouble. She sprinted behind the couch, I tried to corral her, and she dashed beneath our bed. She wedged herself between a suitcase and a box of stored clothing, refusing to come out. Jay declared that she would be fine, and that we had to leave. If needed, we would send a fireman after her. He had scouted the building quickly while I chased the cat, and could find no smoke nor flames. We headed outside to the lawn with all our neighbors, and waited for the fire department to arrive. And waited. Jay finally called emergency services himself. At one point, he looked down at me and realized I was wearing my rain boots. "Why do you have your rain boots on?" he queried... just as the sprinklers turned on. Somehow in the back of my mind, I remembered that the lawns get watered around 5:30 or so, and grabbed my boots to keep myself dry. Jay however got soaked. Combined with a very rude and early awakening, he was in a foul mood. The fire department finally arrived around 5:40, turned off the alarm, and let us back inside. The alarm was apparently a fluke, and I'm happy to report that Meow does not appear to be deaf after her long exposure to the loud siren. At least she can still hear her food bowl being filled from two rooms away.