Welcome tiny overlord!

I have meant so many times to sit down and write up a post about all the things we've had going on recently.  We traveled to Peru, to Iceland, finished our landscaping and remodeled our kitchen.  But the biggest news for us is the news that our life was changing permanently - we were becoming a family of three!  We were so thrilled (and terrified) when we found that we were expecting.  I settled down into what was a mostly routine pregnancy.  Since I was 39 when we found that our baby was coming, and turned 40, the pregnancy was classified as high risk.  However, all the genetic screening and perinatologist exams showed that our little boy was developing perfectly.  We also found out that I am homozygous for the MTHFR mutation - meaning that I am deficient in the enzyme that converts homocysteine to methionine.  I was taking a modified pre-natal vitamin that contained a pre-modifed version of folic acid to make up for this deficiency, and all seemed well.

However, another side effect of this mutation is an increased risk for pre-term birth; this particular risk was realized and our tiny overlord joined us 5 weeks early.  We welcomed Nathaniel Seals Hall on January 24, 2017.  He picked a beautiful day to be born, blue skies with big white clouds.  He was in a rush, and was born in less than 12 hours once my labor began, at 7:39 pm.  He weighed 5 pounds, 15 oz, and was 18 3/4 inches long.  He spent the first night next to me in recovery, but the next morning had to be admitted to NICU.  His blood sugar never stabilized, and he required a dextrose IV and monitoring, along with supplemental formula.  The staff at Simi Valley Hospital were fantastic, supporting us completely through it all.  He only had to stay 48 hours, and then he was discharged.  We took him home that Friday.

We've now had him home a little over a week, and our tiny overlord has indeed changed everything.  I never thought I could love my husband that much more, and that I could feel how much my heart has grown with Tate's entrance into the world.  As I keep telling Jay, it has clarified so many things for me.  I am even happy during our 3 am feedings, getting to hold this little person close to me while the rest of the world sleeps.  Caring for him is both terrifying and the greatest pleasure.  I feel entirely unqualified, but determined to do my very best for him.

Getting a bottle from Dad, showing off the cutest baby toes I have ever seen!

Christmas 2014 Family Cruise

We've been busy!  I know, it's our constant refrain.  Now that my new laptop is set up and functioning, and I have access to our picture files again, more regular posting should occur.  But there has been a lot to catch up on!

Last December, Kate had a fantastic idea.  The whole family - Kate, Krista, Aunt Susan, David, Granny, Rob, Tia, Jason and me were going to take a cruise to the Caribbean just before Christmas.  We set sail on The Vision of the Seas with Royal Caribbean on Saturday December 13.  The family had met up in Tampa the night before and spent the evening there before boarding the next morning.

The Vision of the Sea in port in Tampa, just before boarding.

Jay had just had his knee surgery a month before, and was still very restricted in his activities.  Since Granny was in a wheelchair for much of this trip, it worked out well to have them together.  We could all go our separate ways during the day (enjoy an excursion, hang out on the beach, or relax on the ship) then we all met back onboard for dinner and the evening's entertainment.  The itinerary for the trip included stops in Honduras, Belize, and Mexico before returning to port on Saturday December 20.



During the first day at sea, the family mainly lounged around the ship.  I chose the Solarium, the indoor pool.  Lounging, reading, napping, eating...Tia and I also enjoyed a tour of the spa and sampled their facial creams.  Our first activity as a family was a wine tasting. Jay and I then enjoyed a couple's massage in the spa before dressing for our formal dinner that night.

The family in Chops Grille enjoying the La Fite wines. 

Day three we arrived at our first port of call, Roatan Honduras.  After a quick breakfast, Aunt Susan, Rob, and myself left for a dive trip with Anthony's Key Resort.  The rest of the family took a boat tour of the island followed by a visit to Punta Gorda.  Once again, that evening the family met for dinner and then attended the "Boogie Wonderland" show in the ship's theater.

Day four we awoke in Belize City, Belize.  For this stop, the ship cannot pull into port and so tender boats ferry the passengers to the dock.  No one had booked excursions, so Rob, Tia, Jay and myself went to explore the city on our own.  We visited the markets at the waterfront, then wandered further into town across the river.  We met a local who took us to visit a local bar.  That evening, dinner followed by the ship's orchestra performing live music in the theater.

Day five was our first port in Mexico, Costa Maya.  At this stop, Jay and I joined Granny, Aunt Susan, and David for an exploration of the local town and a Mayan temple.  We loaded onto a bus at the port with our gregarious tour guide and we were off to Limones, where the temple is located.  Just outside the village we had lunch with local Mayan descendents.  We learned about the trades, local herbs, food, and Mayan society.  When we returned to port we did a little shopping and joined Rob and Tia on the beach. 

Outside the Mayan temple located in Limones, Mexico.

Day six was a visit to a familiar port for Jay and I - Cozumel!  I can't miss diving in beautiful Cozumel, so Rob and I took off to enjoy the scenery below the waves.  The others visit the local Mayan ruins.  Dinner that night is pretty quiet- as you can imagine, we are all exhausted, and looking forward to a quiet day at sea tomorrow.

About to enter a swim through in Cedral Pass.

Day seven was at sea.  We enjoy breakfast together again and then a day of lounging in the Solarium.  The dinner is another formal night, and the family gathers for a picture in front of the tree in the central hall.  What a wonderful way to spend time with family - we made so many memories together that I know we will always treasure.  It was also a nice way to relax just before the holidays!

Jay and I in front of the tree in the central atrium.

Even more home improvement fun!

One of the great things about working for my company is that for two weeks each year, the company shuts down, and you are guaranteed to have time off.  During this time, no one is working, so you can really disconnect and not worry about the amount of email and phone calls you are missing while you are out.  The shutdowns occur during July and December.

For the July shutdown this year, we tackled some major home improvement projects.  I'll give a sneak peek to some of those now! These projects focused on needed repairs, curb appeal, and adding more functional space and energy efficiency to the house.  Some of these projects have been ongoing for a while, but were wrapped up either over shutdown or shortly thereafter.

The projects focusing on curb appeal included upgrading the look of our driveway, replacing the old house numbers, and adding some gravel and flower beds to the very front of the yard.  We also painted the entire outside of the house.

Jay is filling in cracks in the asphalt.  You can see some of the larger patches in the right of the picture.  Also behind him is the new wall we installed with azaleas and mulch.  It really added balance to the driveway, which had a wall on the other side.

This spot was completely empty when we moved in.  We planted bulbs and ornamental grasses, mulched, and covered the curbside with gravel to hide the empty dirt.

The next big project was replacing the damaged fascia and drip rail.  With the help of our new handyman, we pulled down and replaced every dry rotted piece, primed and painted it, and installed the replacement drip rail.  After that, it was time to paint the entire house.  We debated on colors for a while...

Color choices painted on the side of the house.

but in the end decided to go with Riverstone by Behr.  Since our home is stucco, we used a masonry paint.  We first powerwashed the entire house, then repaired any cracks or holes in the stucco.  After that, the fun with the spray gun began!

We painted two coats on the entire house in one day.  I will never paint a house without a spray gun again!

The color turned out beautifully.  We are still very pleased with it.  It's so nice to walk outside and not see the spots and streaks where the house paint had faded over time and been touched up with unmatched paint... not very attractive at all.

We also started building a pergola on the side of the kitchen.  The kitchen side faces the west, and since this is Southern California, it gets a LOT of sun.   In fact, since we don't have air conditioning, we have noticed that the kitchen and our bedroom is usually about 15 degrees warmer than the rest of the house.  When it hits the 90s (not a frequent occurance, but it does happen) it is very uncomfortable.  To remedy this, we put a pergola over the kitchen patio and walkway that covers the entire west side of the house.

The patio area before we added the pergola.  The area wasn't used very frequently, as it gets very hot even with the umbrella.

Stay tuned to see the results of our current upgrades!!

Bathroom remodel - things get worse before they get better!

As the old saying goes, things usually get worse before they get better.  That's especially true when remodeling.  The old hall bathroom was ugly enough that I did not even want guests to visit.  How sad is that?  So I was excited to start the remodel, because that meant that things were going to get better.  But oh, the in between....construction materials everywhere, dust everywhere, exposed pipes, trash, bathroom things in the guest room, topsy turvy madness.  I really kept repeating the mantra:  "Things get worse before they get better - better is on the way!"  We finished the bathroom in about 5 weekends of steady work.  Not too bad, all things considered.  We survived, and now we have a bathroom that I encourage my guests to visit.

The pocket door is installed where the wall used to be.  This was a kit we bought that allowed us to modify the existing door.

The shiny, beautiful new tub.  I was so excited about the tub.  The old one had been painted pink, then painted cream, had patched holes, and so much built up grime I could never get it clean.  I took one shower there and felt dirty afterwards.

After the tub was installed and the pocket door was up, we replaced the old surround with cement board and tile.  Cement board is much heavier than sheetrock, and better suited for tile in a wet area.  If cement board gets wet, it gets harder, and is extremely resistant to mold or mildew.  We decided that in case of an earthquake, we want to be in this room!  We cut in a spot for an inset where shampoo can sit. 

Here we are dry fitting the tile for the shower surround.  We selected a rectangular ceramic tile for the shower.  The accent tile is natural stone and copper.  It set off the bronze fixtures we selected perfectly!  I do all the tile work with Jay assisting.  He makes most of the cuts and encourages me when I start using foul language. All the tiling was completed in one weekend.

If I had to pick one part of remodeling I hate the most, it's probably plumbing.  I have watched and assisted Jay in plumbing so many times now, and it really seems that it is as much an art as a trade.  We also had a diving buddy who is also a general contractor visit while we were working.  He said that it looked pretty good for a homeowner DIY - so we consider that a compliment. 

So behold the finished product!  A bathroom that I am enamored with.  I am so pleased about how our choices on fixtures and tile seemed to come together.

We installed a pedestal sink to have more floor space.  To make up for the loss of the vanity and the medicine cabinet, we put a cabinet above the toilet.  The toilet is the same one we had before, just cleaned up.  The wainscoting was all replaced, as was all the trim.  The floor tiles are 18 x 18.  The color on the walls is Toffee by Behr.  We chose oil rubbed fixtures for everything, including the outlet and switch plate covers. 

I think the tile job turned out pretty well if I do say so myself!  The inset was tiled with floor tiles to tie the two together.  The accent tiles go nicely with the oil rubbed bronze fixtures we chose for the tub (the fixtures are Delta Porterfield).  And the tub.... it just shines.  I smile every time I walk past this room.

Goodbye to the old, icky hall bathroom

Over the holiday break, we started getting serious about our house renovations.  We bought the house knowing that for many things, we could wait.  We wanted to paint, and get things unpacked, organized, and settled before we tackled the things that we knew we wanted to change.  Just to put it in perspective, this property was for many years a rental property.  When work was needed, the owners went with the least expensive option for everything.  The couple who owned it before us did quite a bit of work- new wiring, new fences, new flooring, remodel of the master bath, and so on.  However, they did not get to everything, as is often the case with a home in progress.  This left us with a few rooms that needed to be remodeled entirely, and some things we just want to make ours, so to speak. 

To kickoff our projects, we built a small wall along the left side of our driveway.  We planted azaleas, and Jay put in a drip hose for irrigation.  It looks very nice now that we have two walls on each side of the driveway.  The entire project took one weekend, and was very satisfying.  We were ready to tackle the next project, which was going to be a little bigger....the complete gutting of the hall bathroom. 

Some of you may remember our previous home in Massachusetts.  That house needed a lot of TLC...especially the bathroom.  However, I think we managed to take it from a dim, water damaged, out of date hole to a bright, updated, solid new bath.  Well, the good news is that our current bathroom was in no where near as bad a shape as the bath in Massachusetts.  For instance, the lights worked on a daily basis, I never fell through a wall, and it didn't smell of pee constantly.  However, it was not in great shape.  The tub and shower surround were plastic, and old, with pink showing through where the plastic had worn thin.  The vanity appeared new, but didn't work in the space for us.  The linoleum, while not a bad choice, was so dirty I couldn't get it clean, the wainscoting was water damaged, and the walls and ceiling needed paint.  All the fixtures needed to be updated.  We also decided to turn the door into a pocket door to save floor space (the bathroom is very small).  Here's our plan:

• Remove the old wainscoting, vanity, and tub
• Change the door to a pocket door with a kit
• This will mean some shifting of the plumbing and electrical (nothing Jay can't handle)
• Paint walls and ceiling
• Install new tub
• Tile the tub surround and floor
• Install new wainscoting and trim
• Put in a pedestal sink
• Install new light fixture, tub, and sink fixtures

Luckily, our new home has two bathrooms, so we don't have to get the work done in a single week.  We made a great start this weekend, performing all the demo work, installing the pocket door, painting the ceiling, and moving the electrical and plumbing.  We will next install the new tub, repair/replace the sheetrock where needed, and prepare the surfaces for tiling.  Below are some of the before pictures, and a photo of the pocket door installation. 

Jay is excited to get started being handy.  He's removing the old vanity here.  It will be replaced with a pedestal sink.

The tub was old  and patched, and so stained I could never get it cleaned.  Same for the floor.  It's a cheap plastic tub, and we are replacing it with a steel tub.

You can see the tracks for the pocket door here; Jay has now installed the door, moved the electrical, and finished the plumbing.

The First Christmas in Casa de Hall

This year will be our first Christmas in the new house in California.  It was an eventful holiday season for us.  We moved into the house in October, and then traveled for a week at Thanksgiving to visit family on the east coast.  A week after returning, I left for Italy for a few days on a business trip.  Jay and Meow held down the fort while I was away.  We had put up the tree before I left, but Jay hung the outside lights to surprise me when I got back. 

Jay wore his new antlers and made egg nog to enjoy while decorating the tree.

The finished tree!  We listen to Christmas carols and drink egg nog while we decorate.  Each ornament is from a trip we've taken together.

 We ran the Santa Monica-Venice Beach Christmas 5K, and that was an adventure - if you saw the pictures on Facebook, you know that we were drenched.  It only rains in the winter in Southern California, and that day was the lucky day.  Not so lucky for us.

My nutcracker collection continues to grow.

My Christmas carousel from Germany.

Even the entryway got a little snazzy!

We really enjoyed being in our cozy little home for the holidays.  The nice thing has been the two week stay-cation I got this year.  We have taken advantage of this time to put in a new wall on the driveway, clean out the garage and organize it, work on the lawn, and begin planning and prepping for the hallway bathroom renovation.  I am very grateful our house has two bathrooms, so we don't have to rush with this bathroom remodel. 

Casa de Hall - the before shots

This week marks our first week in Casa de Hall!  It has been a busy, busy time.  If you are curious about our new home, here are the shots I took before we painted and moved in.  You can see some pics of color swatches we were comparing to make our choices.  First of all, here's the front door. 

Front entrance to Casa de Hall, Thousand Oaks, CA.  The window on the left looks into the garage.

One of the first things Jay did was empty the garage completely and epoxy the floor.  He did a great job!  I could hardly believe how nice it looked when he finished.

The newly epoxied garage floor, after the appliances were returned. 

The garage enters straight into the kitchen.  It will eventually be completely gutted and remodeled, but that will be a little while in planning and saving.

The kitchen, before....

Immediately to the right is the living room.  One of the first things we did was paint the entire house.  Most of the rooms were a rather pale green, and we wanted something much warmer.  We also painted all the ceilings.  A fresh coat of bright white on the ceiling always adds polish!  The wall separating the kitchen and living room was going to be painted a rich brown...  Every room has a ceiling fan, and recessed lighting.  Jay was also wiring the living room for surround sound.

The living room.

The accent wall, wonder which shade we chose?

The living room leads to a hallway, and that's where the hall bathroom is.  It will be the first room to be remodeled, this December.  We will be putting down a new tile floor, pedestal sink, new tub, and tile surround for the tub.

Hall bathroom, before.

The guest room is right across the hallway, and the office is at the end of the hall.  At the end of the hall to the left is our master bedroom and bath. 

The master bedroom has a door onto the backyard. 

The master bath has a stand up shower.  It was also painted green, but we wanted a new color to accent the marble countertop.

The house has a fully fenced in backyard, with a brick patio and a retaining wall.  We have big plans for the landscaping!

The side of the house next to the kitchen.  A slider opens onto the patio.  The door you see leads into the garage.

The backyard has a retaining wall, and brick patio.

The other side of the yard.  There's a sprinkler system, but we're not entirely sure how to work it yet...

I hate trying to envision the layout of people's homes just by a verbal description.  And Jay and I had wanted to be sure we could fit in our furniture.  So we bought some software that allows us to build our home virtually.  We can design the new kitchen and bath, and our landscaping.  But here is a layout of the house.

Coming up next - the house after we've moved in!